“I’m here. I love you.
I don’t care if you need to stay up crying all night long, I will stay with you.
There’s nothing you can ever do to lose my love.
I will protect you until you die, and after your death I will still protect you.
I am stronger than Depression and I am braver than Loneliness and nothing will ever exhaust me.”
“Happiness is the consequence of personal effort.
You fight for it, strive for it, insist upon it, and sometimes even travel around the world looking for it.
You have to participate relentlessly in the manifestations of your own blessings.
And once you have achieved a state of happiness, you must never become lax about maintaining it.
You must make a mighty effort to keep swimming upward into that happiness forever, to stay afloat on top of it.”
“To lose balance sometimes for love is part of living a balancedlife.”
“Its' better to live your own life imperfectly than to imitate someone else's perfectly.”
“Your emotions are the slaves to your thoughts, and you are the slave to your emotions.”
“You need to learn how to select your thoughts just the same way you select your clothes every day.
This is a power you can cultivate.
If you want to control things in your life so bad, work on the mind.
That's the only thing you should be trying to control.”
“I think I deserve something beautiful.”
“In desperate love, we always invent the characters of our partners, demanding they be what we need of them, and then feeling devastated when they refuse to perform the role we created in the first place.”
“There is so much about my fate that I cannot control, but other things do fall under the jurisdiction.
I can decide how I spend my time, whom I interact with, whom I share my body and life and money and energy with. I can select what I can read and eat and study.
I can choose how I'm going to regard unfortunate circumstances in my life-whether I will see them as curses or opportunities.
I can choose my words and the tone of voice in which I speak to others.
And most of all, I can choose my thoughts.”
“Someday you're gonna look back on this moment of your life as such a sweet time of grieving. You'll see that you were in mourning and your heart was broken, but your life was changing...”
“Do not apologize for crying. Without this emotion, we are only robots.”
“People always fall in love with the most perfect aspects of each other’s personalities.
Who wouldn’t? Anybody can love the most wonderful parts of another person.
But that’s not the clever trick.
The really clever trick is this:
Can you accept the flaws?
Can you look at your partner’s faults honestly and say, ‘I can work around that. I can make something out of it.’?
Because the good stuff is always going to be there, and it’s always going to pretty and sparkly, but the crap underneath can ruin you.”
“You are, after all, what you think. Your emotions are the slaves to your thoughts, and you are the slave to your emotions.”
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You are, after all, what you think.